How do you get a person from disconnecting you relatives on geni if this does not get fix I serious considering a law suit and this is huge

This is a Public Discussion, so possibly if CH is following you or compulsively reads the discussions, CH will see it.
But probably not, since you did not tag CH. (to tag, copy and paste the URL to the profile)

Is the disconnection always involving the same profile(s)?
Are they Public Profiles or Private profiles?
If Public, then start a Public Discussion, tagging the two Profiles that get disconnected and explaining why they should be connected.
And allow the other person to provide their view.

Is this a disagreement over ancestry or not wanting somebody's ex showing on the tree or??

Have you provided documents verifying the connection?