Joseph could no have been born in 1639 if his mother was Jane. She died on 5 Aug 1637.
The only mention I see for this Joseph Wheldon is here:
http://jliptrap.us/gen/whilden.htm
10. Joseph Whelden (c.1628 - 1683) ?? not listed among the baptisms in Basford.
So I think he’s an “internet legend” and I’m disconnecting from parents.