Thomas de Ufford, KG is your first cousin 20 times removed.
You
→ Mamie Lee Brooks (Williams)
your mother → Mamie Perkins-Whitaker (Franklin)
her mother → David Winchester Franklin
her father → Owen (Orren) Franklin, Jr
his father → Owen A. Franklin, Sr., (CSA)
his father → Owen Franklin, Jr
his father → Owen Owen E Franklin, Sr
his father → Lawrence Franklin
his father → John Franklin
his father → Elizabeth Franklin
his mother → Elizabeth Salmon
her mother → Susan Cutt
her mother → John Foote of London
her father → Helen Hall
his mother → Alice Warren
her mother → John James Jenawaye
her father → John Edward James
his father → Edward James
his father → Catherine James
his mother → Sir Edmund de la Pole, Kt., MP
her father → Katherine de Norwich
his mother → Margaret Ufford, Countess Of Suffolk
her sister → Thomas de Ufford, KG
her son
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Shortest direct family relationship
Thomas de Ufford, KG is your 17th great grandmother's husband's wife's aunt's husband.
You
→ Mamie Lee Brooks (Williams)
your mother → Mamie Perkins-Whitaker (Franklin)
her mother → David Winchester Franklin
her father → Owen (Orren) Franklin, Jr
his father → Owen A. Franklin, Sr., (CSA)
his father → Owen Franklin, Jr
his father → Owen Owen E Franklin, Sr
his father → Lawrence Franklin
his father → John Franklin
his father → Elizabeth Franklin
his mother → Elizabeth Salmon
her mother → Susan Cutt
her mother → John Foote of London
her father → Helen Hall
his mother → Richard Warren (aka Waller), of Bassingbourne
her father → Sir Laurence Warren, Lord of Poynton
his father → Sir John Warren, Lord of Stopford
his father → Sir Laurence de Warren, Knt., of Pointon
his father → Isabel Dalton
his mother → Sir Richard Dalton, of Apethorpe
her husband → Alice de Clifford
his wife → Maud de Beauchamp
her mother → Elizabeth Ufford
her sister → Thomas de Ufford, KG
her husband