I had merged this profile wrong a few months ago, because I had the wrong dates for my Alton H Hanson, confusing him with your Alton J Hanson.
So I was able to disconnect him from my family, and attach his correct father, Henry T. Hanson.
I will just re-create my proper Alton H Hanson, with the parents I removed from the bad merge. So all should be fine now.