Seen at https://www.familysearch.org/tree/person/sources/LT5F-35C
http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~gkbopp/HOLEMAN/Gr...
Notes
The John Graves who married Sarah Dicken is a very different John - son of a John Graves:
John Graves (125) was born in 1706 in Abingdon Parish, Gloucester Co., VA[3], was baptized 9 March 1706 in Abingdon Parish, and died between 30 March 1747 (date of his will) and 2 June 1747 (date of probate in Spotsylvania Co., Va.). He married Susannah Dicken on 22 Nov. 1732. She was probably a daughter of Isaac Dicken. She was born 14 June 1714, and died in 1784 in Culpeper Co., Va. After John died, she married Henry Chiles. Henry had first been married to Mercy Webb.
In an article by Mrs. P. W. Hiden, "The Graves Family of Essex Co.", William & Mary Quarterly, vol. 16, second series, 1936, pages 650-668, she wrote on page 657: "About 1922, the late Gen. John Card Graves, of Buffalo, N.Y., gave the writer dates of birth and marriage of John4 Graves and his wife, Susanna Dicken, with names and dates of birth of their children. This data had been secured for him by the late Mr. R. A. Brock about 1894 and its source was not given. Since, however, these dates have been corroborated by different branches of the family, it is assumed they are from John4 Graves’s own Bible and they will be used in this article."
"According to this, John4 Graves, b. in St. George’s Par., Spotsylvania Co., Dec. 10, 1712, d. Mar. 30, 1747, married on Nov. 22, 1732, Susanna Dicken, b. June 14, 1714. A patent error is seen in speaking of St. George’s Par. some nine years before its creation, but most likely the meaning of the statement is that he was born in St. Ann’s from which St. Mary’s was formed, St. Mary’s including that part of Essex which later lay in Spotsylvania and became St. George’s Parish." If the 1712 date were correct, then John would be #113, descended Thomas1, Francis2, Thomas3, John4. However, in an article by Charles Hughes Hamlin, The Virginia Gazette, Williamsburg, VA, 28 Aug. 1959 and 4 Sept. 1959, Mr. Hamlin disagreed with Mrs. Hiden’s conclusions and gave a very reasoned argument for the lineage given here. Mr. Hamlin’s article can be seen in the Appendix. In addition, DNA testing has shown that John Graves is not descended from Francis Graves, but has instead confirmed the descent given here.. (R-5, R-14, R-507)
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In other words, as I understand it, Susannah Dicken married a “different” John Graves (son of Francis).
The wife of John Graves, Sr. (of unknown origins) is not known, as per the Graves Family Association.
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