Philo Carter Parish - find Philo Carter Parish's father in CT

There were only four Parish households in Windham Co. CT in 1820
Aaron is the first

Burnham Parish was #2

Name: Burnham Parish
Home in 1820 (City, County, State): Pomfret, Windham, Connecticut
Enumeration Date: August 7, 1820
Free White Persons - Males - Under 10: 1
Free White Persons - Males - 26 thru 44: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 25: 1
Number of Persons - Engaged in Agriculture: 1
Free White Persons - Under 16: 1
Free White Persons - Over 25: 1
Total Free White Persons: 3

Philo would then be classified as under 10

The jesse Parish household #3 doesn't have a male child the correct age

Name: Jesse Parish
Home in 1820 (City, County, State): Windham, Windham, Connecticut
Enumeration Date: August 7, 1820
Free White Persons - Males - 45 and over: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 25: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 45 and over : 1
Number of Persons - Engaged in Agriculture: 1
Free White Persons - Over 25: 2
Total Free White Persons: 3

niether des #4, the Lemuel Parish household

Name: Lemuel Parish
Home in 1820 (City, County, State): Canterbury, Windham, Connecticut
Enumeration Date: August 7, 1820
Free White Persons - Males - 10 thru 15: 1 <<<<< (too old for Philo)
Free White Persons - Males - 16 thru 25: 2
Free White Persons - Males - 26 thru 44: 1
Free White Persons - Males - 45 and over: 2
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 15: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 16 thru 25: 2
Free White Persons - Females - 45 and over : 2
Number of Persons - Engaged in Agriculture: 2
Number of Persons - Engaged in Manufactures: 2
Free White Persons - Under 16: 2
Free White Persons - Over 25: 5
Total Free White Persons: 11

Let's then start with two of these four:
1) Aaron (26-44) in 1820
2 )Burnham (26-44) in 1820

age of both born 1785 (+/- 10 years)

Burnham Parish evidently had a son Charles who was born in 1814... so that rules out #2... (see: https://www.ancestry.com/family-tree/tree/50230815/family/familyview)

There is also no reason to restrict to WIndham Co.
The profile mgr. once stated that Philo was born in Washington Co. NY. What if it was Washington CT, as in:

Name: Daniel Parish
Home in 1820 (City, County, State): Washington, Litchfield, Connecticut
Enumeration Date: August 7, 1820
Free White Persons - Males - Under 10: 1<<<<
Free White Persons - Males - 45 and over: 1
Free White Persons - Females - Under 10: 3
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 15: 2
Free White Persons - Females - 45 and over : 2
Number of Persons - Engaged in Manufactures: 1
Free White Persons - Under 16: 6
Free White Persons - Over 25: 3
Total Free White Persons: 9

Also there are another 9 Parish Connecticut households in 1820... beside the four already mentioned at the outset of this discussion

philo parish was brought up in Sparta dansville NY.. Born 1815. Seth parish his brother was in Ft. Edwards NY. Both were shoemakers. They had a brother John Preston Parish who moved to Appleton WI in 1848. Phill and his son Philander moved there from Dansville Ny in 1865. Seth had a son John Henry Parish. I have pictures of John Preston and John Henry Parish. The Family still resides in Appleton. The father of philo is Henry T. Parish. I think the middle name was Truman. He might have went by Truman.