@Isaac Kirksey - A possible way to determine the age and marriage date of Isaac and Mary is to find the earliest deed for Isaac and a deed where Isaac sold property and his wife signed her right of dower.
There is a deed of sale from Isaac Kirksey to Collins Robert Patterson for 115 acs. dated 5/15/1764. Gideon was the witness. Mary did not sign her right of dower. Therefore, Isaac is of age in 1764 and was not married.
Also note that Isaac purchased 57 acs. from Gideon and his wife on 4/26/1768 and Isaac was deeded 300 acs. from Edward on 2 May 1768 north side of Haw River on Poke Berry Creek.
Isaac sold 300 acs. 11/19/1772 property in Chatham Co. north side of Haw River on Poke Berry Creek to Christopher. Mary signed her right of dower at this time.
c1743 or earlier, Isaac born
1764, Isaac at least 21 years of age
5/15/1764, Isaac of age but unmarried
4/26/1768, Isaac purchased property from Gideon
5/2/1768, Isaac deeded property (300 acs) from Edward
11/19/1772, Isaac sold the 300 acs. and Mary signed dower
Will written in 1778 and probated Feb Court 1779.
Return made after the sale of Isaac's estate 18 Feb 1786.
Questions: Where was their property located? Where were they buried? When were Isaac & Mary married? To determine approximate marriage date, need the ages of all the children.
Listed on a Role of Capt. Isaiah Hogan's Co. 19 Sep 1772 (NC Militia) This is not Revolutionary War.