lol I have found the missing Bennie! AKA Benjamine Cox and his lovely bride Rachel! Just don't know anything about them, or past them!! But apparently three of their sons married three Murphy sisters and thus begat my grandparents! Bejamine and Rachel are my 7th Great Grandparents from my Grandad and 5th Great Grandparents from my Grandma! Story has it that my Grandparents had never met (other than my granddad really wanted to marry Hallie, Grandma's oldest sister) nor did they know they were related when they married. But once my Grandad passed away and Grandma had to apply for her SS card (because she worked at the canning factory after selling the farm) She was informed of the relation rumor then. She also found out that her real name was Edna Cox on her birth certificate. Her parents changed her name but never legally. What a mess THAT was!! anyway....... happy dance for finding the missing link....... But now I find out the rumors were true and it sounds like a Springer show!! LMFAO :)