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I think we should disconnect from this family and connect instead to Jacob Toll.
http://www.ancestry.com.au/genealogy/records/cornelia-jacobse-toll_...
https://www.myheritage.com/names/cornelia_toll
https://www.genealogieonline.nl/west-europese-adel/I1073915467.php
Here is the marriage record transcribed from the Amsterdam Arcchief that proves the wife of Evert Duyckinck was Cornelia JACOBSE Toll.
inschrijvingsdatum:
25-01-1675
naam bruidegom:
Duijckinck, Evert
naam bruid:
Toll, Cornelia
naam bruid:
Jacobs, Cornelia
bronverwijzing:
DTB 501, p.249
opmerkingen:
Huwelijksintekeningen van de KERK.
Archief van de Burgerlijke Stand: doop-, trouw- en begraafboeken van Amsterdam (retroacta van de Burgerlijke Stand)
Ondertrouwregister: NL-SAA-26430669
Further evidence in the form of witnesses at her children's baptisms:
1682 May 27; Abraham de Lanoy, Cornelia Tol; Maria; Evert Duycking, Maria Van der Berg [12]
1684 Oct 15; Abraham de Lanoy, Cornelia Tol; Jacobus; Isaac Van Vleck, Marritie de Lanoy [12]
1686 Nov 21; Abraham de Lanoy, Cornelia Tol; Abraham; Gerrit Duycking, Catalyntie de Lanoy [12]
1689 Jul 29; Abraham de Lanoy, Cornelia Tol; Johannes; Pieter de Lanoy, Cornelia de Peyster [12]
1691 Sep 27; Abraham de Lanoy, Cornelia Tol; Catharina; Hendrickje Duycking [12]
1694 Jan 28; Abraham de Lanoy, Cornelia Toll; Cornelia; Jan Sprat, Sytie Duicking [12]
No members of the Toll family act as sponsors whereas Hans and his two children are living just a few miles away
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I think your Evert Duyckingh is actually a dupe of his father Evert Duyckingh
Evert and Cornelia are married and in NYC in 1679, but note that Evert is "Junior".
1679 04 Dec; Evert Duycking jr; Cornelia Jacobs, (mem)
Cornelia remarries 1681 as above and is still having kids in 1694.
I think the Evert Everts baptised in 1650 with no mother named is actually Evert Jnr which makes him 25 when he goes to Holland and marries Cornelia.
This would suggest a DOB about 1650 > 1655 for Cornelia giving her an age of 40-45 for the last known birth in 1694.
Trijntje - 13-11-1675 - Zuiderkerk - Hervormd - Duijkingh, Evert - Jacobs, Cornelia - DTB 96, p.181 - 000000052594
Evert - 25-07-1677 - Zuiderkerk - Hervormd - Duijkinck, Evert - Jacobs, Cornelia - DTB 96, p.231 - 000000052619
Hendrickje - 12-04-1679 - Zuiderkerk - Hervormd - Duijckinck, Evert - [van] Jacobs Tol, Cornelia - DTB 97, p.38 - 000000052650
All the evidence suggests to me that the parents of Evert "Jnr" (1650-1680) are:
1646 09 Sep; Evert Duyckinck, I , jm van Borken; Hendrickje Duyckinck , jd van Noordthorn