I have 2 sources of documentation that support the 12/25/1781 date.
The problem comes in when considering the story of her arrival as given by her son Isaac.
https://archive.org/stream/jewsofunitedstat03blau#page/786/mode/2up
In the story she has married in France, had 2 children, and is in the Dominican Republic, arrives in NY at the age of 13..
Locating the French records of birth or marriage would go a long way to resolving this problem.