This site shows her as being married to Arnout Webber. She may have been married to an Arnout Webber, but not the one that she is linked to on this site. The Arnout she is linked to as her husband died 16 days before they were married. Webber was a common name amongst the early Dutch settlers. It is highly probable that she married a different Arnout Webber. Regardless, she didn't marry and have children with a dead man. So regardless of anything else, the link to Arnout needs to be removed as her husband and father of her children.