NEUDECKER, RUTH ELLEN Ruth Ellen Neudecker, 83, of East Haddam widow of the late John Neudecker died Monday Oct. 13th at her home surrounded by her loving family. Born Aug. 26, 1931 in East Hampton she was the daughter of the late Lionel and Naomi (Anderson) Robinson. She is survived by her three sons Lloyd Neudecker of East Haddam, Larry Neudecker of East Haddam, Lee Neudecker and his wife Misti of Alaska, two daughters Laurie D’Aquila and husband Nick of Norwich, Lynn Woodward and husband Charles of East Haddam, sisters-in-law Patricia Neudecker and Frances Robinson, five grandchildren Christopher, Patrick, Jeremy, Debra, Phillip, nine great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews. Ruth was a loving mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She was known for her compassion for people and animals and as a lady of hard work and many talents. Ruth was a nurse for more than fifty years and spent her life taking care of people. She worked at Chestelm Convalescent Home, Connecticut Valley Hospital and Cromwell Crest. Ruth was one of the first East Haddam Ambulance Association nurses. She became an EMT through the first course offered at Middlesex Hospital. Ruth was a 4-H Leader and taught many young women how to cook, sew and grow up to be leaders. She loved animals and fostered dogs from rescue organizations, finding homes for so many. She was a member of the Friends of the Rathburn Library and organized the weekly Farmers’ Market. Ruth was selected as the East Haddam Volunteer of the Month. She was famous for beautiful knitted and crocheted gifts. Ruth made and donated sweaters to the church to give to the poor. She volunteered for the East Haddam Food Bank. Ruth played the organ, had a wonderful voice, and was a member of the Middlesex Hospital Vocal Chords. She served as a Tour Guide for the East Haddam Historical Society. An exceptional bowler, she competed nationally and was the past president of the NLWBA. Ruth was a member of the Porsche Club of America and competed in gymkhanas. She was an avid gardener, growing and sharing the flowers and vegetables with friends and family. Ruth was a member of the Christ Church and attended the 8am service every Sunday before her illness. Her smile and laughter warmed the hearts and brought comfort to all those she met. The family would like to thank the Middlesex Hospice and Ruth’s caregivers Pat, Florence, Nicole, Emily and Sabrina. Friends may call at the Spencer Funeral Home 112 Main St. East Hampton on Friday Oct. 17th from 6PM until 8PM. Funeral services will be held Saturday Oct. 18th at 10AM in Christ Episcopal Church in Middle Haddam. Burial will follow in Rock Landing Cemetery in Haddam Neck. Memorial contributions in Ruth’s memory may be made to East Haddam Ambulance Assoc. P.O. Box 17 Moodus, CT 06469. To leave online condolences please visit: www.spencerfuneralhomeinc.com. - See more at: http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/middletownpress/obituary.aspx?n=ru...
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