message of matches

i have received many message of matches and those matches they quote me are the information i have on the site.
i think it should be something that is new so far it hasn't gone passed my mom and dad, i don't know what geni is thinking.
i have more than 200 plus ancestors , seven all the way to spain and 3 to itlaly, and a lot of dead ends when the wife the last name is just another female 1st name.