my 3 x great grandmother

Private User and Private User and Terry Jackson (Switzer), do any of you have any suggestions? I'm hopeless with Ireland, the Islands, and England/UK.

I will have a look this evening but result is not guaranteed as there WaS no civil registration in Ireland till 1864 . Did they marry in Barbados?

I have found frances' marriage cert of which it lists her father as daniel but cant find anything else to do with him or a marriage cert for him and sarah or a connection to barbados. On frances' birth cert it says daniel is paymaster-police ?

A Sarah Woods married a Fletcher in 1852 county Tyrone
A Sarah Greer married a Fletcher in 1851 county Tyrone
A Sarah Magee married a Fletcher in 1853 County Antrim
And a Sarah Graham married a Fletcher in 1849 county Antrim, this Sarah would have been 17 .

But none of them maried a Daniel

So her father was a paymaster based in Barbados, maybe we can find out more about this, I will get back to you

http://books.google.ie/books?id=b2NPAAAAMAAJ&pg=PA307&lpg=P...

Thanks now u know why im having such a hard time lol. The only other thing was if Daniel wasnt his first name but middle name but used daniel?

Maybe it was Daniel, we just need to find the record :)
I will check all the above Sarahs and see if one of them was born in or around 1832.

2x Sarah woods born in 1832, one in Limerick and one in county Derry
3x Sarah Greer born in 1832, Tyrone, Antrim and county Wicklow
1x Sarah Magee born in 1832, county Antrim

None of them with a father named Daniel

I'm tearing my hair out I have been trying to find this connection for the last goodness knows how many years. on every record it says frances was born in Barbados yet I cannot find any link to her there either

I am tearing with you Beverley Morgan :)
If it says on every record she was born in Barbados then we can probably go by that. I see what I can find there.
A lot of people from now Northern Ireland went to Barbados, but in earlier years

Did find this record and think there might be a relation as Frances was Frances Henrietta and this is Henrietta Frances Fletcher

Name: Elizabeth Fletcher
Gender: Female
Christening Date: 13 Aug 1861
Christening Place: SAINT JOSEPH,BARBADOS,CARIBBEAN
Mother's Name: Henrietta Frances Fletcher

Hi Anne-Marie I did wonder if that could be the case of name round the other way. But still cant make head nor tail of Frances Daniel & Sarah lol. So any light that can be shed would be appreciated

Maybe?
Name: Sarah Fletcher Graydon
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 1871
Gender: Female
Age: 40
Relationship to Head of Household: Daughter
Birthplace: Ireland
Schedule Type: Household
Registration District: Medway
Sub-District: Gillingham
Parish: Gillingham
County: Kent
Household Gender Age Birthplace
Self John Graydon M 71 Ireland
Wife Agnes Graydon F 36 Holborn, London
Son Patrick Jno Graydon M 3 Gillingham, Kent
Daughter Sarah Fletcher Graydon F 40 Ireland
Granddaughter Frances Graydon F 14 Barbadoes, West Indies
Grandson David Fletcher M 10 Barbadoes, West Indies

I just found a bit more about the David Fletcher listed above:
David Fletcher, born Barbados 1861
baptised at St Anne's Garrison Church
Parents:
David Fletcher, police sergeant? and Sarah Anne

So could the parents your looking for be David Fletcher and Sarah Anne Graydon?

May well be thank you do we know if the sarah was born in ireland?

May well be thank you