Dear all, I have added the coat of arms here, as at least it is modern customs that women retain their family weapon (and noble titles) also after marrying. This implicates that she could - also this is admittedly a modern fashion - have the surname Arctopolitanus and still keep her coat of arms. But I have no strong opinion in either case, so please remove the image if any of you find this contrary to your convictions.
All the best,
Pontus Kyander