The Mary Graves that married Joseph Haskell is the daughter of Mark and Amy Graves (in MA). NOT the daughter of Isaac and Mary (in CT).
Subsequently this Mary Graves is NOT married to Eleazer Frary.
The mix-up has happened through one of the numerous merges on this profile.
If we make a split in the tree so that Mary is again only daughter of the MA couple, then the Mary of the CT couple will be lost to them.
The easiest solution in my opinion:
1. Add Mary a new to the CT couple (there are numerous sources to this profile so it should be easy)
2. Connect Eleazer Frary to this new profile
3. Set the new CT Mary and Eleazer Frary as parent for the children they have together (these profiles are intact so it should be no problem)
4. Disconnect Eleazer Frary from the CT Mary
5. Set the MA couple as parent for the MA Mary.
Puh...
Please shout out if you think this is wrong or if you have objections to me performing these steps.