I was in Lithuania and Poland as part of a Litvak-SIG trip in June 2012. I am adding photographs I took to my albums here on Geni, so I can share them with the family. I've organized them by shtetl, but also captioned each photograph. If you have questions, please ask.
Shtetls: Bakalarzewo, Przerosl, Merkine (Meretch, Merecz), Grajewo, Szczuczyn, Rajgrod
I just added photos from Bakalarzewo. Families related to us from there include: Epstein, Sterling, and Bardin. You can read about Bakalarzewo in the project narrative. It's sometimes spelled Bakalerove or Bakalerowe. Look it up on Jewish Gen or ask questions here.
The link to the information about the old Jewish cemetery is here: http://www.iajgsjewishcemeteryproject.org/poland/bakalarzewo-suwals...
This is how I found the cemetery, with the aid of my intrepid guide and my wonderful driver. The guide, who is four years older than me, hiked up and down swampy, steep hills adjoining the lake to look for the cemetery and asked Polish hikers where to find it. It was on a high bluff, under pine trees, overlooking the lake (Lake Sumowo). There were not too many graves, but some were intact and upright and were legible. I was looking for Epstein and Bardin and didn't find anything that might be those families. It was very hot, overgrown, late afternoon, and the air was full of summer insects. It was memorable, but I am sad that such famous families may lie in this beautiful, remote, and uncared for location.
Ratnycia (Rotnitsa) was a satellite farming settlement from Merkine (Meretch). It has since become part of the spa town of Druskininkiai, on the border with Belarus. The Jewish population at its height was perhaps 300 and my family (Frankel) counted as 70 people approximately at that time. That doesn't count Frankels who were married into other households or households descended from Frankels, so basically the photographs of the cemetery in Ratnycia will show you graves of ancestors or relatives of mine without a doubt! Ratnycia was part of the thriving and learning community of Merkine and apparently children would go to school in Merkine. They must have boarded with families in Merkine. I do not know how my great great grandparents' marriage was arranged, since she had family in Merkine, but not I don't think in Ratnycia.
Hatte Anne Blejer The Ratnycia photos pack a powerfully chilling punch, as if the very earth is pulsating locked energy.
It would be great if we could match tombstones to people. At http://www.geni.com/photo/view?album_type=project&photo_id=6000... we obviously have a Shlomo on the left. Is it Toyva Elsas on the right? Could be his wife?
At http://www.geni.com/photo/view?album_type=project&photo_id=6000... as labelled Betzalel Frankel
At http://www.geni.com/photo/view?album_type=project&photo_id=6000... I think I am seeing the name Avraham Yaakov Kopel
I took shaving cream with me and a rag but in most cemeteries it was hopeless. You'll see when you see some of the other shtetls. But yes, both Bakalarzewo and Ratnycia and also Merkine and of course Kalwarija (new cemetery) could be restored and the headstones could be read in many instances. I could not even enter the enormous Przerosl cemetery where my gg grandfather and my ggg grandparents are buried, it was so overgrown.
Shlomo was the clearest stone I saw. There were a few very legible stones in Merkine as well. But I have seen other cemeteries that were better kept or have been restored where there are many legible stones.
The headstone that you think you see Avraham Yaakov Kopel on needed shaving cream or another trick to make the letters stand out. It was one of the ones that had I had time and more people with me, I could have cleaned it up. In many of these cemeteries there are days or weeks of work. There is an organization called Matzeva which restores cemeteries. They are going to work on Rokiskis, which I would like to assist with financially as one of my great uncles and his son were the rabbis there.
Hatte - you tell a heartfelt story. I am just wondering what we can achieve with what we have with the collaborative power of Geni.
The one where I think I saw the name Avraham Yaakov Kopel has a readable date of Erev Rosh Hashana - the eve of Jewish New Year and I think the year is 5656.
Betzalel's father could be Tuvyo. The date is I think 27 Tammuz. Year could be 5646.
etc
Amazing what you can do with Google. This is Shlomo
http://www.bagnowka.com/?m=cm&g=zoom&gal=38&img=54661
This is also Toyve
http://www.bagnowka.com/?m=cm&g=zoom&gal=38&img=54663
and this is also Shlomo
http://www.bagnowka.com/?m=cm&g=zoom&gal=38&img=54660
Hatte
Was this the only Jewish cemetery that you came across in Meretz or this was of direct interest to you? My family, (father's paternal grandparents-both sides) were from Meretz but I have very little information on family names. What I do have is also very confusing as the same last name appears on both sides of the family.
Scott
Private User - I haven't posted the cemetery photos from Meretz yet. I had a lot of family in Meretz also. I'll do that later today, so watch for them. They may be captioned Merkine. That cemetery is very close to the town. I have wonderful photos from the town - synagogue and Jewish school - as well as from the mass killing site. The cemetery is totally invaded by pine trees and while you can walk in it, it's in disarray and large and spread out among many trees.
email me separately on Geni and I'll try to help you with your Meretz family. I have lots of information on the families in Meretz.
The photos that I took in Merkine (Meretch) are now uploaded to the Margolis and Frankel Family Project here: http://www.geni.com/projects/Margolis-and-Frankel-Families/374